Church Hurts Pt. 3: How to Say Hard Things

October 6, 2024 – 2 Corinthians 1:23-2:4

ICE BREAKER: Imagine you had Paul’s authority for a day—what’s the first thing you’d change in your life or the church?

Read 2 Corinthians 1:23-2:4. How would Paul’s decision not to visit the Corinthians in person demonstrate wisdom in leadership?

Read Hebrews 12:11.  How might confronting sin and spiritual issues be painful OR helpful for both leaders and congregations?

What are the dangers of leaving sin and discord unaddressed in a church community?

Read Hebrews 13:17.  What is difficult about obeying and submitting to authority for you?

Paul didn’t want to ‘lord it over’ the Corinthians (2 Cor. 1:24). What does this mean?

• • Why is it important for leaders to be conscious of how their authority is perceived, even when their intentions are good?
  • What risks do spiritual leaders face when they confront issues in their churches?

Read 2 Corinthians 2:4.  How does recognizing the potential weight of our words and actions change the way we interact with others in leadership or influence roles?

Read Hebrews 10:23-27.  How can churches create a culture where difficult conversations are welcomed rather than avoided?

If someone were to tell you that another Follower of Jesus had confronted them and they are hurt, what would your counsel be for them?

What is one thing God is asking you to start doing, stop doing, or keep doing?

How did God use this message to teach, train, challenge, convict, or encourage you?